What could go wrong?
When it arrived, I was impressed by how luxurious it looked. But I didn’t bother reading the instructions properly. I unboxed it, gave it a quick wipe down with a tissue and sanitizer spray, and started using it.
Everything felt fine… until it didn’t.
Two days later, I started noticing a strange burning sensation whenever I used the bathroom. I assumed it was a UTI. I drank lots of water. Took cranberry supplements. It got worse. The burning turned to stabbing pains. I started seeing yellowish discharge and my lower abdomen felt like it was being squeezed from the inside.
When I finally went to the hospital, they ran tests. I expected a mild infection.
Instead, the doctor looked at me with narrowed eyes and said,
“You tested positive for Staphylococcus aureus. It’s spreading quickly. If we don’t treat it aggressively, it can affect your reproductive system.”
I was stunned.
I’d never had unprotected sex since my breakup. I hadn’t been with anyone.
And then the doctor asked,
“Have you used any shared objects? Razors? Towels? Or… sex toys?”
That was the moment my stomach dropped.
I remembered—I hadn’t cleaned it properly. And the truth is, I later found out from a friend that some imported sex toys aren’t properly sterilized before shipping. Some even get handled by multiple people in warehouses, or worse, returned and resold without deep sanitization.
I spent the next two weeks on antibiotics, injections, and painkillers. I cried every night. Not because of the pain alone, but because of the shame and fear. I didn’t know something that seemed so harmless… could wreck so much.
I shared this story on Healthforty because this could happen to anyone.
🔥 What Is Staphylococcus aureus ?
Staph is a bacteria commonly found on the skin, but when it enters the body—especially through open wounds or sensitive areas like the genitals—it can cause severe infections. Left untreated, it can lead to:
- Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID)
- Infertility
- Blood infections (sepsis)
- Recurrent urinary tract infections
✅ Health Tips to Stay Safe When Using Sex Toys
Whether you’re single or exploring, your health must come first. Here’s how to stay safe:
1. Always Sanitize Before and After Use
Use antibacterial sex toy cleaner or hot water and unscented soap. Wiping with tissue or baby wipes is not enough.
2. Know the Material
Use non-porous materials like silicone, glass, or stainless steel. Avoid jelly or rubber toys—they harbor bacteria easily.
3. Never Share Sex Toys Without Protection
If you’re sharing, use condoms on the toy and change them between users.
4. Check for Damage
Small cracks or tears in a toy can harbor bacteria. Once damaged, stop using it immediately.
5. Don’t Use If You Have a Cut, Rash, or Infection
Bacteria can enter even through microscopic tears in your skin or internal lining.
6. Store Properly
Don’t just toss your toy in a drawer. Keep it in clean, breathable pouches and away from dust and moisture.
7. Buy Only From Reputable Sellers
Avoid second-hand toys or unknown online vendors. Only buy sealed, brand-new toys from trusted brands.
8. Pay Attention to Your Body
If you feel unusual pain, odor, discharge, or fever—stop using the toy and see a doctor immediately.
💡 Final Words
Pleasure should never come at the cost of your health.
What happened to me was preventable—but I didn’t know better.
Now you do.
Please share this story with anyone who might be silently struggling or unaware. We need to remove the shame and replace it with education.
Because sometimes, what we keep secret… is what hurts us the most.
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